I've been thinking a lot lately about how people show their love for one another. An ongoing issue between my husband and me is that we misinterpret -- or miss altogether -- each other's signals. He think he's being expressive and I think he's being cold. I believe I'm giving him space and he wonders if I'm mad about something. It's hard!
But one gesture he offers that I actually pick up on is when he makes smoothies. He takes bananas, yogurt and frozen fruit and turns them into delicious concoctions that are the best things I eat. I realize they're sort of a pain to make, so when he surprises me with one in the morning, I know it means something. And I take it as "I love you."
The February issue of Real Simple has some creative smoothie ideas. Check 'em out here.
Aw- love this :)
ReplyDeletemmmm what a great post. you start off with honesty and vulnerability, and you reward that sincerity with a nice reminder about the simplicity of a loved one's acts. and you share great recipes with us, bonus! :)
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